datatables with php mysql and have links or options

Hello loving datatables but have a hard time to make them how i really want usually i make my tables with a repeat or do while, but after testing datatables want to try them im using right now

        <script type="text/javascript" charset="utf-8">
            $(document).ready(function() {
                $('#listax').dataTable( {
                    "bProcessing": true,
                    "bServerSide": true,
                    "sAjaxSource": "./datatables.php"
                } );
            } );
        </script>

for my html i have

<div class="block-fluid table-sorting clearfix">
    <table class="table" border="0" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" width="100%" id="listax">
    <thead>
      <tr>
        <th class="yy">Title:</th>
        <th class="yy">Slug:</th>
        <th class="yy">Category:</th>
        <th class="yy">Order:</th>
        

      </tr>
      </thead>
      <tbody>

        <tr>
          <td class="xx">&nbsp;</td>
          <td class="xx">&nbsp;</td>
          <td class="xx">&nbsp;</td>
          <td class="xx">&nbsp;</td>
		</tr>

</tbody>
    </table></div>

so far it works great until i try to get my edit and delete buttons my normal way without datatatables is

<table class="Table" border="0" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" width="100%">
    <thead>
      <tr>
        <th class="yy">Title:</th>
        <th class="yy">Slug:</th>
        <th class="yy">Category:</th>
        <th class="yy">Order:</th>
       		<th>&nbsp;</th>

      </tr>
      </thead>
      <tbody>
<?php do { ?>
        <tr>
          <td class="xx"><?php echo($row_page['Title']); ?></td>
          <td class="xx"><?php echo($row_page['Slug']); ?></td>
          <td class="xx"><?php echo($row_page['pagecatt']); ?></td>
          <td class="xx"><?php echo($row_page['Order']); ?></td>
          
		<td class="EditButtons" nowrap="nowrap"><input type="button" class="formButton ResultsPageButton DetailButton" value="" onclick="document.location.href='detail.php?id=<?php echo($row_page['id']); ?>
<?php echo(isset($_GET["pageNum_page"])?"&pageNum_page=".intval($_GET["pageNum_page"]):""); ?>';"/><input type="button" class="formButton ResultsPageButton  UpdateButton" value="" onclick="document.location.href='update.php?id=<?php echo($row_page['id']); ?>
<?php echo(isset($_GET["pageNum_page"])?"&pageNum_page=".intval($_GET["pageNum_page"]):""); ?>';"/><input type="button" class="formButton ResultsPageButton  DeleteButton" value="" onclick="document.getElementById('deleteRecordID').value=<?php echo($row_page['id']); ?>;document.getElementById('deleteBox').style.display = 'block';document.getElementById('deleteMessage').style.display = 'table';" /></td>
        </tr>
<?php } while ($row_page = mysql_fetch_assoc($page)); ?>
</tbody>
    </table>    

As you can see i have on my last cell some buttons it can even be links or pictures to edit delete or anything else using the id of each element, how can i do this kind of tables with datatables is it even possible i checked most of the examples but have no clue how to accomplish this any tip please on how i can do it?

O also datatables.php is just exactly as the example just changed the database connection and the tables cells